We are (not) friends by Anna Kang, illustrated by Christopher Weyant

Kang and Weyant's series of relationship concepts, which includes You are (not) small, That's (not) mine, and I am (not) scared adds another simple story with several layers that works equally well as an easy reader and a read-aloud.

We are (not) friends brings back the furry creatures that fans will recognize, starting with the honey-colored bear and small purple creature. They are having a dress-up game, pulling costumes out of a green trunk when a blue, kangaroo-like creature appears and wants to play. The bear enthusiastically invites it to join their play, suggesting a duet and seemingly deaf to the surprise of the purple creature, who thinks they're playing something else! Trouble ensues as the purple creature gets jealous, honey bear is bewildered... and then in a rapid change of pace, purple and blue hit it off, leaving out the big bear! Adults will recognize the rapidly changing patterns of friendship as the creatures play, fight, and finally declare WE ARE NOT FRIENDS! But it just takes one friendly gesture for the three to reconcile and find a game they can all enjoy, best friends forever! At least until another creature shows up....

The colorful artwork and simple text, easily readable by a beginner, sends a gentle message about remembering to include everyone. The creatures don't mean to exclude each other, but in their excitement to play new games and meet new friends they sometimes forget the old ones who then feel left out or ignored. Adults will nod knowingly at the progression of events while little kids will giggle - and maybe think twice next time they're playing with friends.

Verdict: This thoughtful series teaches social skills with humor and a fun story; use it in storytime, as a fun read-aloud, or with a class that's having difficulties playing well together. Recommended.

ISBN: 9781542044288; Published May 2019 by Two Lions; Review copy provided by publisher; Donated to the library